Tasha, I think that you should invite ATLien to wine is new... otherwise, the olive branch that you extended will appear fake. And I do kinda feel like she's afraid to totally let her guard down bc she doesn't know how to read you and don't want to get burnt. Also, I think you should also consider Tisa. Yes, she clearly has a attention span problem but you can speak to her about it. We support ppl with disabilities. Besides, they both have DEDICATED followers!.
Just think about it.