Sis!, in all honesty, here's where the issues lie in what you've shared. We heard you say you have 5 different baby daddies and they each pay, or make contributions to take care of the household...THEN you said you work full time and do hair, so money is not an issue...THEN you said you have a boyfriend who is helping you, but THEN you said you won't ask him for anything. As resourceful as you are, are we to believe you were not able to find a way to get a home for your children that did not require a lot of paperwork? There are plenty of places that don't. You mentioned wasting money on an AirBnB, yet that was not the only option I mentioned. The program you're in a 4 month program, but your babies will be uprooted again when the 4months has exhausted. That's stability to you? So the reason why you are seeing so many forming opinions, is because you lent not only the opportunity to do so, but the way you shared seemed to unravel in one contradiction after another. As I tell anyone claiming damage to their property, I'm not refuting what you're claiming, but make it make sense and lend real credence to your claim.
SO....I said Iwas lost for words but I lied...YOU MEAN you'd rather keep your babies in harms way of a shelter than get a stable place for them. There are PLENTY of options as long as she has money. AirBnB, rooms for rent, rent share...come on man. Put your pride aside for DEM BABIES....it ain't about YOU anymore. I got a headache...where is my inhaler and tylenol, dis 2 MERCH!!!
I'm sitting here in awe....listening to her trying to MAKE REASON about each child having a different baby daddy. I'm not judging her for having them, but her logic of them (the babies daddies) all contributing to her household...BAFFLING... and lost for words!
This was tough, but the lesson here is to be careful next time. If you find out the man/woman is married...ans I don't care WHAT fit & fabulous story they feed you about home...LEAVE THEM ALONE! DO NOT take on another person's headache...leave it all to their spouses to handle. Furthermore, ppl only do and treat you what you allow. If you KNEW it was morally wrong, then look at it as Your payback for what you voluntarily did to someone else's Husband! I hope she has productive therapy and a boost in her self esteem to know her worth and not ever accept a side line position.
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