Exactly! He almost like he blame her for their demise.. I think he want to believe what he's telling himself and say "what I didn't wasn't that bad because she was cheating too".

You still wanting her after she left you and her hooking up with someone does not equal cheating because you were still pursuing her

Right! Better question is.. why tf he still holding on to a sex video or picture of her or them?

I don't think you ladies are "pick me's" I hate that term, lol.

I do think someone women try to hard to hold other women to the point where they miss important and obvious details and problems in the male.

All the periods in the world 😆

You had a baby by a pastor. But I like to think you loved your husband and marriage enough to not to continue jeopardizing your marriage.

Mistakes so happen, but it seems you learned from it! She gave him another chance, no telling home many times, and he kept on.

Yet no one taught him how to be a faithful man in your family with good values. 😕

He don't have to throw anyone else under the bus because he's fucked up. That's their business! Interview them and go from there. Don't ask him to confirm their business.

Wanting to talk nasty does not equal cheating because you never done it before. There are things I do or tell my husband I want that's different than before.. I'm damn sure not cheating. It's growing, evolving, and growth in sexual appetite

You about family! But you were willing to break your family up because of sex issues?? Come on now! She even gave you a chance, AFTER it was publication announced.

Arionne is dumb! What is she going to take from Melody, if she was to join the show? What will she have to offer being on the show??? Some fake EVERYTHING is all good with us relationship between you and him?

If my husband was to stop doing things he was before.. I would converse that with him and I would consider my options of LEAVING if my request aren't being met.

You addressed your issues for a year, but had a mistress for five years. Not a one night stand.