Saungee

Dallas, TX, United States

He is an enabler, I was with my two adult daughters. We are not their Gods, we can’t save them. I learned that dancing with the devil’s minions, you will continue to get burnt.

If he doesn’t show and tell the truth with proof, his children, family, and himself will continue to be in danger by Chantelle’s actions and lies. He has to disconnect permanently, me and their dad have peace now. They are adults, whatever happens to them, it’s on them now.

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He don’t understand, that someone will kill me, thinking they are taking a rapist / molestor out of this world. He needs to speak, they will get him and his sons.

My exhusband and I raised our three children together, our oldest daughter is 34, she started doing a lot of the same things Chantelle did starting at 16. My exhusband told me, to stop helping her at 18, I didn’t listened and paid heavily, when she was 28, I flew her and her youngest daughter to the state I relocated to, she lied and incarcerated me and sold my furniture for drugs and stole money out my account. I took her youngest, 3 years ago, because she was taken her to LA. I discovered my granddaughter father had been raising her and allowed him and his mom to fly and pick her up. My daughter lies and lies, she tell people, I took her child, she was beaten, she didn’t have anything. We raised them in a middle class household, she had a vehicle at 16, we had family vacation, I spent time one on one, I took her to church, therapist; I let her and my middle daughter (30) completely alone. I suggest to him, leave her where she is, try to get his granddaughter. We are not their God.

It saddens me, as a mom to have two adult daughters that are manipulative, self centered, selfish, lazy, and takers that intentionally wreck havoc in my family, their work, relationships, and children. We have one son, the youngest who had to bare the chaos and agurments. Our home is peaceful, he told me that if I ever decided to allow them to live with me again, he will leave my life, and his dad life. We’ve tried in every aspect to help them via therapy, love, listening, understanding, apologizing; they choose to walk a toxic life journey and not live in peace. We’ve decided to cut ties for our peace; they’re 34 and 30, they may never decide to be good people, my prayers are always with them. I hope the father and brother decide to choose themselves and hopefully he will be able to get his granddaughter, I’m raising one of mine, since birth.

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I am raising one of my granddaughters since birth, she is eight and the other two, their fathers won custody. If you dance with the devil’s minions, you will continue to get burnt.

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I can actually judge him, because I have three adult children, my oldest two are daugjters (34& 30). They have been toxic, manipulative, ungrateful, evil, and liars since they were teens. We gave them a life, they wanted as children. They’ve were raised in a middle class household, good schools, paid for all of their college / university expenses, help financial and physically with their daughters. Last year, I disconnected, they jeopardized my career, health, and household; I refuse to continue to enable their toxic behaviors. If people continue to enable evil relationships, it will continue to grow.