LT I will check her out. But yes ma'am, Mel is very careful with how she words and responds to EVERYTHING. With that, I truly wish she would take accountability for the breakdown in her marriage rather than continue to point the finger every episode at what Martell has done or is doing wrong. From the outside looking in, they have both handled each other wrong the last few years. I also believe that because she speaks of God so often to her fans/watchers, people automatically assume Martell is the enemy. However, God is a god of love, and all that confusion they both are creating for their family is not godly no matter what angle you look at it. 

As a woman that has experienced both domestic violence and adultery in marriage, I completely understand why so many women prefer to stick up for Mel over Martell. However, I believe BOTH are narcissist and are responsible the breakdown of their marriage. I believe you can be both a victim and perpetrator at the same time. Mel is a very smart, articulate and successful woman. It's crazy for people to think that with those qualities, she would be the "victim" everyone makes her out to be. Yes, Martell committed adultery, multiple times, but she chose to work her marriage out. I believe she shares only the good in her and bad in Martell. All of the "characters"/cast on the show have expressed similar things about their falling out with Mel. At some point, it cannot be everyone else ONLY. Martell may be the RESULT of his marriage ending, but Mel is not the innocent bystander/angel. I wish they would both consider how it will affect their kids.

Right! A complete waste of time. Annoying with the, "here's the thing..." Like, man answer the questions or shut up already!