Tasha , I woman in a relationship with a man & have outside children does NOT mean that woman is suppose to work like a man because of it. Nor does it mean that man isn’t required to take care of those children. As a MAN your job is to take care of the household which includes ALL children. As a man you entered that relationship knowing the situation therefore you accept the responsibility. & this goes both ways. If you don’t want the responsibility do not enter the relationship it’s that simple. But don’t have these men thinkin that , when you marry someone you accept the children as your own so provide like there your own. And that man goin to want you to lay down & birth him his own kids as well. 

I wanted Tasha to ask her so bad "Did your dad have to take you to the hospital because you told him you think someone gave you something" and also ask her what did she give her ex to make him feel trapped and like no one else would want him. The biggest issue here is that this woman is knowingly sleeping with people without telling them her health status. She is far from a victim she is actually a predator. Surprise she isn't in jail.